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Portions of this page are provided courtesy of Megg Mass from Infinite Body Piercing, Inc. We'd also like to thank everyone else who contributed to this stretching guide during its compilation.
The number one thing to remember about enlarging piercings is to listen to your body! Your body knows when something isn't working, and learning to hear what it's telling you is important.
Stretching piercings takes time and patience. Scar tissue can build up and create ugly, problematic piercings that can be difficult to stretch. A good general rule is to wait three times as long as it took to heal before the first stretch. This allows the new skin some time to thicken and toughen up before it gets traumatized by the enlarging process.
Each new size becomes larger exponentially. 10ga to 8ga doesn't seem like much, but 1/2" to 9/16" is a major jump even though it is the very next size. The larger your hole, the more time you should allow between stretchings. Start out with a month or two between stretchings and, as you get larger, begin extending that time frame. Stretching piercings can be traumatic and sometimes painful, but it doesn't always have to be. Knowing how and when will help.
Since lobes are the most commonly stretched piercings, special attention must be paid to them. Lobes get plenty of circulation so they tend to heal quickly and grow new cells easily. But it's also easy to injure the soft tissues of the lobe. To avoid injury, soak the tissue in hot water prior to stretching to increase circulation and soften and relax the tissue. Massage is also a good way to help the tissue relax.
Using insertion tapers is the best way to stretch a piercing. A taper is a long, needle-like tool that gradually thickens to the size you desire. There are tapers available in every gauge from 18ga to 00ga, and even up to 1 inch and larger-the more gradual the taper, the less traumatic the stretch (Tribalectic's tapers are 3 inches long allowing you to safely stretch your piercings). Lubricants should not be water based unless the stretching is taking place in the mouth, or is an easy, quick stretch. Water based lubricants tend to absorb and liquefy too quickly.
Petroleum based ointments are difficult to clean out from piercings, can harbor bacteria, and we simply don't know the possible effects these products can cause by being used inside skin. Better lubricants would include Satin Soap or other mild, liquid soaps such as Provon or even Dial (Sensitive Skin Formulas). Many piercers choose to use Technicare, a surgical scrub containing the same active ingredient found in Satin and Provon. Soaps rinse away and are extremely slippery. While they can be difficult to control, liquid soaps make for great lubrication. Remember, a tiny amount goes a long way. You can even add water to make them even more slippery. Only enough lubricant to ensure a smooth insertion should be used...too much can make the jewelry too slippery to hold on to.
When you're ready to begin stretching, it's wise to see a professional piercer. The stretching procedure should be completed following the same aseptic techniques used during the piercing procedure. Even though a piercing is healed, the skin can become so thin that it can become susceptible to infection or even rip. If you are going to stretch your own piercings, be sure to wash your hands with hot water and a liquid, antibacterial soap (like Satin).
Lobes: If you plan on getting your ear lobes stretched, you might as well start out with 10ga or 8ga piercings. After 6-9 months you should be ready for your first stretch. Captive rings work well in this case because they're not extremely heavy and they are easy to care for. Once you get to 4ga or 2ga, begin wearing lighter jewelry like eyelets and plugs.
When inserting wood plugs that are just slightly too tight, try putting them in a zip-lock baggie and then letting them sit in the freezer for 10-20 minutes. The cold causes the wood to constrict and then they'll warm and expand in your ear. This should only be done with healthy ears and plugs that are slightly too tight to get in easily.
A new, tight sponge can be cut to about 1/2" larger than the plug you want to wear. Wet the sponge and squeeze it into the lobe. As the sponge dries and expands overnight it can stretch the ear quite a bit. Be careful taking the sponge out, as the skin can get quite a grip on it.
Weights are probably the most common way to stretch lobes, but they're not always the best way. Unless the weight is distributed to all the tissue inside, the piercing the only stretching going on is where the weights actually touch the skin.
Massage regularly with jojoba oil or even extra virgin olive oil, but avoid vegetable oils as they tend to become rancid quickly.
Tongue: Not only is the tongue a popular piercing, but stretching it is becoming more and more popular. Special care must be taken to avoid damaging the soft palette and the teeth and gums. The balls of a barbell get larger with each gauge. Eventually the size of the balls alone can make wearing jewelry impossible. At high gauges, custom jewelry with domed balls or disks work much better than large barbells.
Stretching the tongue can cause an amazing amount of discomfort...sometimes much more than the original piercing. It's usually better to start out large (10ga) than to wait for a thinner bar to heal and stretch later. Piercing with 14ga and 12ga bars does not hurt any less than a 10ga, and if you're planning to stretch, why not start with the larger bar? Sometimes swelling can last a little longer with the 10g bar, but in the long run, it won't matter.
Cartilage: Cartilage is a firm, structural support for the ear and nose. Unlike skin, it does not have its' own blood supply. Cartilage receives almost all of its' blood from the surrounding skin, so stretching cartilage is an extremely slow process. If ear cartilage is stretched too quickly the tissue can become so tight that blood cannot get to the cartilage which can cause necrosis (tissue death). Cartilage can also crack or even shatter like glass. This damage can be irreparable and even dangerous to your health. Slow way down when stretching cartilage, way down...maybe once a year for some. The thicker and more firm the cartilage, the slower you gotta go.
Nipples: If you like your nipple piercings, you'll probably love them as they are stretched larger. Nipples can be stretched to huge sizes with time and patience. But be careful, heavy jewelry, or jewelry that gets knocked around a lot, can lead to keloiding, migration and rejection. Go slow and steady.
Genitals: In general, genital piercings are easy to stretch and tend to do so on their own with time. These highly vascular areas heal very quickly and produce new skin at an amazing rate-especially Prince Alberts and Labia. Listen to your body.
Navels: Since navel piercings take such a long time to heal, it can be 3-4 years before some navels are ready to be stretched. Navel piercings are glorified surface piercings, so they require extra attention to size, weight and time. Listen to your body.
Septums: The proper placement of a septum piercing puts it through skin rather than cartilage. But, even a perfectly placed septum piercing can be nearly impossible to stretch (depending on the individual nose). This is an easy one to "listen" to because it can become extremely painful to stretch, and remain painful for days following a stretching.
Assuming the ear is healed, massaged or soaked, cleaned, and ready:
When using a taper, it is important to have enough lubricant without having too much. Spin the tapers' tip and front 1/3 in anti-microbial soap and then wipe off any excess globs onto the back of your glove. Begin by pushing the taper into the piercing gently until it meets resistance. At that point you need to look to see how much taper is through and how much is left. If the taper is more than half way through then the stretch will usually be fairly easy. Take a slow, deep breath and, as you exhale, push the taper through until only about 1/4 inch is left. There should be some resistance. If there is no resistance or, if you feel no burning or pressure, you can probably try the next size. If you do feel a burning sensation, or even a bit of pain, then the stretch was perfect. It's better to allow the skin to thicken and heal before attempting to stretch further.
If the jewelry requires 0-rings, then have the one furthest from the taper already in place. Making sure that the jewelry is the same gauge as the taper, and that just the tip of the jewelry is lubricated, begin to breathe again. While exhaling, and while supporting the surrounding tissue just like a new piercing, insert the jewelry. Now place the other o-ring onto the taper and push it all the way down to the thickest end of the taper. Place that end up against the other side of the jewelry and make sure you have a very good connection. Push the o-ring right onto the jewelry. This is another place where too much lubricant causes problems.
When inserting eyelets or plugs, a tight connection between the jewelry and the taper is essential to avoid cutting the tight tissue. Once the jewelry is in, clean off excess lubricant and make sure the jewelry is long enough that swelling won't be a problem.
It is a good idea to soak newly stretched piercings in hot salt-water 2 times per day, just like a new piercing (just in case the skin is susceptible to infection). After a week or two the piercing should feel good and healthy.
Sometimes the skin can rip during a stretching session. If this happens, you may want to consider putting the original jewelry back in to allow for healing. Wait a month or two and try again. In some cases the torn tissue will heal just fine with the tighter jewelry, but if healing isn't happening quickly the jewelry should be downsized 1 time.
If you are going to use tapers more than once, wash them off under hot water with anti-microbial soap before each subsequent use.
The pliers should be taped with simple tape or band-aides to keep the pliers from scratching the inside of the ring.
If done carefully, Ring Closing Pliers won't be needed. Use the Ring Expanding Pliers to gently open the ring just enough to be able to pull the bead out. If the right amount of force is applied, the ring will not change shape...it'll just spring right back to its original diameter.
When putting the bead back into place, the same procedure applies. Practicing taking the bead in and out a couple of times will give you a good idea of what's required. Having someone else re-insert the bead is a good ideal...it's hard to do on yourself in a mirror.
The larger your holes get the more dead skin, moisture, bacteria, and dust can collect in them. This smelly, oily substance which forms (called sebum) needs to be cleaned out on a regular basis. To clean, take out your jewelry, wash your skin and the jewelry with anti-bacterial soap, and then dry thoroughly. Find out how to take care of your jewelry-some need to be oiled, others cannot get wet, and others require their own, unique care.
If you tear a piercing during stretching, you will usually know immediately. You will often get some bleeding, and the piece that was so hard to push through a moment ago suddenly slides easily. If this happens, soak the piercing in warm non-iodized salt water for a few days, until it seems better. Once it is no longer scabbing or crusty, start massaging the skin with jojoba oil, vitamin E or cocoa butter several times a day. This will speed healing and soften any developing scar tissue.
A blow-out is an uneven distribution of skin and/or scar tissue from stretching too far too fast. It may look like your piercing is turned inside-out. The soaking and massaging methods described above will come in handy here, but you may still end up with permanent scar tissue. Once healed, start your next stretch from the other side, so you are "tucking in" the excess tissue. And if you do tear or blow-out your holes, take it as a reminder to stretch more slowly next time.
Good luck!
Note: Please keep in mind that this guide represents the opinions of many body piercers, but it is not fact. Consult with your body piercer when attempting any stretching. And above all, listen to your body!



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I have had a scrotal
Posted on May 14, 2008, 3:11 pmI have had a scrotal piercing for 12 years. It is now 000g. Recently one side has become very sore and the skin hard. If I take the jewlry out for more than 15 minutes its very difficult to put back in. Cold weather also affects it. I have to keep it lubed with neosporene to aid in the discomfort. I cannot understand why such a established piercing would do this......any ideas what is going on?????
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I have done some stretching.
Posted on May 15, 2008, 10:26 amI have done some stretching. I have stretched my nipples to 2 ga. It was too much. did not care for it. I have stretched my amp to 2ga and like it very much. Stretch my dydoes to 12ga. After several tries, they held and healed with 12ga curved bars. 14ga is too small. Wish I would have had them done in 12ga instead of 14ga. Back then they were done in 16ga and 14ga. If you are going to do dydoes, do them in 12ga. curved, not straight bars.
One think I found when stretching, use emu oil around and over the piercing for about a month before. I know, do not put oil on a piercing, but emu oil is different. It socks in to the skin. It is a great healer and makes the skin stretch easier. The glan and nipple are harder to stretch.
SO, stretch a LITTLE at a time. When you get to 6ga and larger, the jumps in size is much more as you go larger. exp.. 6ga is 12.92mm in circumference, 4ga is 16.29mm in cir, an increase of 3.37mm, 2ga is 20.56mm, increase of 4.26mm. By making tapers out of knitting needles, you can stretch in 1.57mm increases at a time. The needle is made of aluminum and can be turned to a long taper on a lathe using a file. Then polish them very very smooth. Then make a rod about 1/2 inch longer than your piercing, from the needle and use two O rings to hold them in place. Let the rod there for about 3 or 4 days (or when the piercing feels healed/comfortable again, may vary with piercing and the person) and then go to the next size needle. #2 needle = about 10ga, #3 needle + 8ga, #6 = 6ga, #8 = 4ga. Now there are # 5 and 7 needles inbetween there, giving a LOT less jump in stretching. Just 1.57mm at a time. Remember,you are NOT stretching the piercing larger by the diameter, BUT by the circumference of the piercing, which is a lot more than the diameter.
I hope this will help you stretch.
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This will happen with large
Posted on May 15, 2008, 10:43 amThis will happen with large gauge jewelry. I have had the same thing on my scrotal piercing. And during cold weather, the scrotal is not as soft and stretchie and can be torn easier. I would:
1. soak the piercing in warm non-iodized salt water.
2. get some emu oil to put on it to aid in healing.
3. drop back in size until you get it healed back up.
A scrotal will close up very fast with no jewelry it. This is normal.
Good luck getting this healed back up.. You will need to down size to get it healed back. Hope this helps
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Aside from the fact that
Posted on May 17, 2008, 6:26 pmAside from the fact that it's probably not a very good idea to let a sponge dry up in a freshly stretched hole unless you want it stuck to your skin, sponges contract as they dry - not expand. This is really not very responsible stretching advice. I hope you'll reconsider recommending it.
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I just got a new septum
Posted on July 7, 2008, 4:42 pmI just got a new septum piercing about a month ago. (initial piercing of 14gauge). I see that you reccommend waiting up to three times the length of the initial healing time (that would be up to a year and a half) before stretching. I anticipate waiting that long; however, I'd like to know what you think would be the best way to stretch? Tapers? or just inserting the next size jewlery? I'd ideally like to get no bigger than a 6gauge. What would you recommend?
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i have my ear gaged to a
Posted on July 21, 2008, 4:23 pmi have my ear gaged to a 7/16, an i dont think i will go any larger for a while. one thing i have notice is that when i take the eyelet out there is a very distinct smell, and i was wondering what may be causing this? i mean it is a healthy piercing, the gaging process went well all sanitary and such. i just can not figure out what is causing the smell, i have washed the eyelet and my ear lobe, but the smell keeps coming back am i not taking it out and washing it enough or what? any advise or anything would be greatly appreciated.
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I have not seen a lot of
Posted on July 24, 2008, 1:08 amI have not seen a lot of discussion about this OL, but I've noticed it myself and have done some [medical] research into the subject...
First of all, this is a very NORMAL occurrence. These accumulations are generally associated with a combination of sebum (a natural secretion of skin oil), combined with a build up of dead skin cells, as the affected area continuously renews re-growth around the stretched/pierced area. Moisture retention also plays a factor. For all intent and purpose, this is not unlike the "cheesy" secretions of males with a foreskin.
Eyelets and earrings with backers tend to accumulate more of these secretions, as they are static and do not float freely through the piercing. A floating ring moves naturally and constantly pushes through the area, offering a cleansing action - particularly when showering.
Ultimately, this is a personal choice: Do you like the look and up-keep of a of a plug, or an eyelet?
BTW: Over the years, I've noticed a rather necrotic odour associated with my septum piercing. This seems to be intrinsic to the area the of piercing, rather than the ring (or size of the ring). I don't know very many others with a septum piercing, so I have not been able to compare experiences.
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what gauge is good to stop
Posted on July 26, 2008, 3:05 amwhat gauge is good to stop at
for a pa, cuz right now I just stretched from
a 12g to a 10g.
I plan on getting my nipples done and
after it's healed I plan on stretching it,
what's a good gauge to stop at.
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After stretching your ear
Posted on August 5, 2008, 7:50 pmAfter stretching your ear lobes with a taper, how long should you wait to take it out and clean the jewelery and ear it's self?
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Yes, you're right that
Posted on August 9, 2008, 10:01 pmYes, you're right that artificial sponges shrink as they dry; however, natural sponges from the ocean do infact expand, but they normally smell funny!
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Hi I had my initial PA done
Posted on October 5, 2008, 12:05 pmHi
I had my initial PA done @ 10 gauge and have gradually gone up to 2 gauge with no problem except minor discomfort. Will probably go further in about 6 months.
Go with how you feel comfortable, personally I like the weight.
Best of luck
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I have had my PA done for
Posted on October 9, 2008, 8:41 amI have had my PA done for almost 1 month. I love every bit of it, when would be a good time to stretch it? I have a 10 ga bar through it now, the ring was too uncomfortable.
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dear bodyringguy- how is it
Posted on October 26, 2008, 6:57 amdear bodyringguy- how is it healing, any better? I had trouble with my ear piercing it got infected i used ANTIMICROBIAL soap to clean the area and it seemed to help you may want to try that. I got the soap from CVS and asked the pharmacist to point the soap out to me it came in a blue bottle and it seemed to help A LOT - don't use neosporin or alcohol or hydrogen peroxide those are bad to use. this kind of soap is the kind they use in surgery to clean the area.
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The one thing I learned
Posted on January 3, 2009, 11:39 amThe one thing I learned about healing my piercings is that you need to be constant and consistent in your approach. I use a sea salt bath (use distilled water) followed by the application of a hot green tea bag or a camomille tea bag. Leave the tea bag on for 5 minutes you may need to redunk it a couple of times. The hot tea bag helps to increase circulation to the area. In addition, tea is a natural antiseptic and has antioxident properties. I do this four times a day. I see results within two days. The piercings heal nice and clean, with strong supportive tissue. I also wash the piercings in the shower at least once a day. Twice is optimal, three is too much. I use only antibacterial non fragence soap. I use this method also for "flare ups". It works great for me.
Hope I can be of help
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Congrats on your new
Posted on May 17, 2009, 5:23 amCongrats on your new piercing
Up gauging a PA will depend on a few things. Skin type, urethral diameter and eventually what you are comfortable wearing. Take it slowly and passibly use an enlarging Horn it's far more comfortable way of enlarging a pa.
If yr planning on up gauging yr nips, get them done with 2.5 or as near as first, it's safe and you avoid one up gauge. I've up gauged nip before nearly 20 years ago but let it heal after a few years, it just never settled, i think it's do do with no having them clamped. cloamping allows more dermal tissue to be placed in front of the piercing. I'm now starting again for the third time with my nips and its the second time i've had them clamped and done, they seemed to settle so much faster. What ever you do tell your piercer you intend stretching that way they will give you enough depth to work with.
Be safe and enjoy
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Who started you at a 12g?
Posted on May 25, 2009, 7:09 amWho started you at a 12g? Can rip our real easy, I have a 6g in my pa right now. I don't plan on going any larger then that, it is mostly for fun, any larger and it could cause problems when having fun.
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What kind of jewelry are you
Posted on July 13, 2009, 12:20 pmWhat kind of jewelry are you wearing. At this size the shear weight of it can be the issue. The weather is bitch of a problem in it self because it is constantly changing. Check your jewelry for flaws start a regime of saline soaks a couple time a day and hit the shop to have a pro check it out.
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The gauge to stop at depends
Posted on July 31, 2009, 5:22 pmThe gauge to stop at depends on wether you plan to keep the piercing or if you will get tired of it and decide to remove it. I started at a 12 gauge and stretched to a 0 gauge and probally will stretch to a 00gauge before I stop. I understand that a 0gauge would be the largest I would go if you plan to remove it later on down the road. But really its what you are comfortable with.
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too much text))) in fact it
Posted on September 2, 2009, 7:27 amtoo much text)))
in fact it is much easier
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hi…i had a PA done two
Posted on September 22, 2009, 10:16 amhi…i had a PA done two weeks ago and want to know when is it safe to remove it?
also do i need to go to the tattooist to get him/her to remove it?
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I would go if you plan to
Posted on October 5, 2009, 10:42 pmI would go if you plan to remove it later on down the road. But really its what you are comfortable with.
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What ever you do tell your
Posted on October 5, 2009, 10:42 pmWhat ever you do tell your piercer you intend stretching that way they will give you enough depth to work with.
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It is a very interesting
Posted on October 11, 2009, 1:55 amIt is a very interesting fact that to avoid injury, soak the tissue in hot water prior to stretching to increase circulation and soften and relax the tissue.
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Thanks a lot for sharing
Posted on October 13, 2009, 3:56 amThanks a lot for sharing this information!
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Posted on October 15, 2009, 12:07 amJust be careful with the needles used, lol.. I am so afraid that they will hurt my skin and cause it bloody. free web advertising |job listings |bath vanity
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Posted on October 24, 2009, 6:23 pmNipple jewelry can be so exciting. The younger boys and girls typically wear piercing jewelry as an expression of their self confidence. It is hip, fun, sexy, and for the girls, something to show off to the boys if the boys are lucky enough to get a peek.
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Thanks for useful guidelines
Posted on November 3, 2009, 4:03 amThanks for useful guidelines about piercing.
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