well, from a female's pov, both of you have to be very sure that you want to do this ! also, understand that you will bring someone new into your relationship, so if you do this, i would recommend someone that is not very close to both of you, like a mutual acquaintance . i would defray from a complete stranger; both of you want to know who you will be enjoying yourselves with . my hubby always fantasized about the idea of sharing me with another man and then one day i looked him in the eye and ...well, i'll leave that to everyone here to figure this one out, he, he, he ! do this only of both of you are completely sure . if either of you have reservations about it, then...DON'T DO IT! it could potentially ruin your relationship . but if you do follow through with it, you will definitely enjoy it ! so i hear that two men at once is very stimulating and pleasing to a woman ! hope this helps! if you have any questions , let me know!

Out of curiosity, would you be just as open to this if your husband wanted it to be a woman instead of a man?

I say keep it a fantasy. I guess I am a little old fashion, but that is a serious situation. I agree with piercedhunny, make sure you are both completely cool with it and if so then it is up to you. No need to ruin a great thing, for a try at something that may be interesting in the mind. If you do it, then good luck!

Fantasies are a wonderful thing, but the actuality of this is that at some time it will turn into a disaster.

To Piercedhunny, thanks for the advice. We are definately talking about it to make sure we are both okay with this. Thanks

Bohica,
At first like I said I was kind of against the idea, and the thoughts had come to mind. But like I said we continue to talk about it and I have become more in tune with my husband. We have in fact talked about bringing a couple(Man and Woman, My Idea) into the picture,so noone loses.

Thanks for the comments, Everyone!!!

thanks thekid700. just make sure that both of you are completely o.k. about it . if you are, then i am sure that both of you, especially you...will definitely it!

there's a saying that goes something like: "many men can't tire one woman , but one woman can tire many men !"

Hunny is right...
I have faced this question before and I was always OK with 2 men and me and never agreeable to 2 women and him. I got jealous and worried that the other woman would please him more and come between us (which is silly thinking becasue I know how awesome I am in bed - but I am a woman and I think too much - LOL).

So if you do this be sure you are BOTH OK with your emotions, becasue it is very easy for a woman to think about it too much and make something larger out of the circumstances. Remember guys are more simple about things then we are. Some of us tend to overthink everything.

If you are both very secure in your relationship and emotions, then it should be a fun time and no one will get hurt.

What ever you choose, I wish you fun, passion and peace, for nothing is wrong if you both agree on it!

C.J.

Hi Kidd, I agree with Hunny and CJ,

My husband and I have and open relationship. We trust each other completely and communication is the key. We have rules that we won't break. We know each other's fantasies and we both work to make them reality. You have to make sure you talk through all of the details before you go through with anything. We have shared some of the most amazing experiences together, yes even DP ! We've been together over 10 years and our marriage is stronger than ever.

Just have fun and remember, it's all about pleasing each other. But, if you find you're not comfortable with something, tell him. PM me if you're really interested on where to begin.

Well sure, the fantasy of being penetrated "everywhere" sounds really exciting, but in my fantasy, both guys are my husband. Its quite exciting in my head, but he's all I want, the rest will stay a fantasy, and stay in my head. If I really need that "totally filled up" feeling, there are toys that can help out.

As for you Kid,
I can't really say how or where to start, except like Curious said, communicate about everything, beforehand and afterwards. And don't go along with something just because he wants it, and you feel you "should" be ok with it.

In case you decide to go for it, I hope it turns out to be everything you're hoping for.

Being a Ex-Swinger back in 1980-1985, a Nudist,Ect, Ect. my wife & Really enjoyed it met Alot of Great couples, singles, ect. I/We had No Regrets (she was killed in car accident few yrs later) The MAIN THING Is Trust in yourselfs and to each other. I thing we always knew was at the end of the Day/ Nite we had each other to continue in OUR Wild Sex. Again you and your man really have to talk about it and remember there on other man better than YOUR MAN. GOOD LUCK & if you go through with I'm sure You & Him will Enjoy it I Know we DID, but that was ALL before Aids, and the other VDs going around now. P.S. We also worked at a swing club for a couple years here in Calif.GOOD LUCK

I have sex from time to time with couples.One couple mainly.They have a open relationship.I enjoy her mainly but have Done him once.It goes ok with them

First of all let me say you have awsome boobs!! About the three-some, GO FOR IT by all means!I put you on my buddy list. I would like to chat with you guys. Maybe I could be in one of your three-somes.I have a pierced tounge and nipples, also an eight inch package I can share with you.