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Silver & Luna
I debated on putting this up, cause it's kinda personal, but I've made some good friends here and consider us all to be a fun freaky type of family,lol.
After a month apart, much soul searching, and a willingness on both of our parts(cause it takes 2, ya know?!?!) to work on our own issues and our relationship, we have decided to Go For It!!
This separation has actually been a good thing, made us realize what's important in life and has also shown us who are true friends are. That one was a bit of a shocker,lol. The people you think are the closest, really aren't. While you get so much support from people you had no idea cared. Life's funny sometimes and continues to teach us along the way.
So, instead of burying our heads in the sand and just going with the flow, we had to have things shaken up a bit and boy are we both glad that we did. I would hate to go through life just existing and being miserable.lol Plus, can you imagine me having to keep my mouth shut for too long? haha
So, while being realistic and knowing we have a lot of work ahead, for the both of us, we're gonna have some fun along the way. Cause what's life w/out a little fun? Start dating(hadn't been on one in years) and fall in love again!!
We still have a lot of hard work to do, but that has never scared me or silver before. Thanks for your time.
I also wanted to add this: I have recently dropped a few people from my friend's list. If you have any questions, please feel free to pm me or not. But have the decency to be honest,ok? Silver and I had a lot of issues with secrecy and lies w/this online 
. While I admit that I'm pretty naive with how things work on piercing sites where nudity is shown, I don't like to see all the flirting and game playing with people who are married. It's none of my fuckin business how you live your life and maybe it works for you, but this is a sensitive subject for me. So, at this point in my life, I don't want to see it or even understand it. It stresses me out and I don't need that $hit. Feel free to drop me if you don't like it. And I will do my best to mind my own business, unless asked. And then Look Out. lmao If I ever offend you, just let me know. I respect honesty and straight forwardness, even if we have to agree to disagree. Or when I'm wrong.lol
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I always love your words
Posted on October 23, 2009, 9:43 amI always love your words
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Glad you two decided to work
Posted on October 23, 2009, 9:44 amGlad you two decided to work it out hon
will call you in a bit girly.. seems like we havent talked in forever.. so much going on for both of us.. anyhow, I gotta run and get to cleaning cuz MY HUBBY'S GONNA BE HOME FOR DINNER!!!! So Happy 
love ya hon, give Silver a hug for me
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Thank you Hairy. Means a lot
Posted on October 23, 2009, 10:01 amThank you Hairy. Means a lot coming from a writer and a cool guy, like yourself.
And dragon, ya know I love ya girl and OMG, you are so getting it later. hahaha I hope you're feeling better today and I will give him a hug. Thanks for caring.
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I'm so glad y'all are both
Posted on October 23, 2009, 10:02 amI'm so glad y'all are both eager to work out issues and get back to the love that brought you together. Sometimes it seems like our individual paths have veered and are headed in two opposite directions. If you reach across the divide and hold each other's hands and hearts the paths realign and we are stronger with someone by our side.
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That was beautiful subtle,
Posted on October 23, 2009, 10:09 amThat was beautiful subtle, thanks girl. You were dead on with the opposite paths. Guess that string that held us together wasn't quite ready to snap yet.
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I'm so glad to hear that you
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:00 amI'm so glad to hear that you guys are gonna work on it Luna. I honestly am not aware of the whole situation but I think it's great that y'all are trying to make things good again. Good Luck with everything!!! We want you guys to be happy!
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You are a good one rx(with
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:08 amYou are a good one rx(with great taste in music,lol). Thanks for the kind words!!
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I am so happy for the both
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:12 amI am so happy for the both of you. You were right all along girl. You took this situation and grew from it.
Bravo! Bravo!
Stonger, taller, better and together you go forward.
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luna... Like rx I don't know
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:16 amluna... Like rx I don't know the situation, but then again, it's not place to know. I am very glad to hear that you two are taking that scarey-as-hell
first step toward being together again. Trust is a very big step with very little tread space, and it's a scarey one to take. (Someone is taking that step for me right now.) I wish you both the best, and life with out fun... is death.
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I wish you Luna the best!
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:33 amI wish you Luna the best! It's great that you are going to work things out. Just think of all the fun you and silver can have all over again!
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Thank you my fellow
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:48 amThank you my fellow Capricorn!! Got a hot date tonight, going to see some bands. WooHoo, we're excited.
Mike, I don't know about me being right. Half the time I have no frickin clue what I'm doing,lol. But, at least I keep "doing"!!!
And doc, I know all about fear and death. They can both cripple you if you let them. I'm giving you a good swift kick in the ass so you can take a step forward(don't wanna fall on your face, do ya? LOL) In all seriousness, you've got a great wife, and I hope you guys can appreciate and enjoy your journey together. If ya'll need anything, just let me know,ok?
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Congratulations and best
Posted on October 23, 2009, 12:13 pmCongratulations and best wishes to you both. I'm glad to hear that you are getting past this bump in the road and growing from the expirience! It seems that these kind of issues in many cases leads to a stronger relationship. huuummmmmm -- Should we consider you newly weds??
Have a great day !!
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hey congrats!!!! i hope it
Posted on October 23, 2009, 1:09 pmhey congrats!!!! i hope it all works out for yall.
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Glad things are working out
Posted on October 23, 2009, 1:35 pmGlad things are working out for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks jones,kernal, and
Posted on October 23, 2009, 1:46 pmThanks jones,kernal, and didit!!! You guys rock.
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Woohoo! Glad to see you kids
Posted on October 23, 2009, 2:39 pmWoohoo! Glad to see you kids back together.
Just take things slow and be happy. So does this mean you'll be upset if I flirt with Silver? I'm thinking maybe if I'm nice enough I'll get a few free piercings outta him hahaha. Have fun on your date tonight!
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glad to hear the good news
Posted on October 23, 2009, 3:56 pmglad to hear the good news girl
! many years ago, i was down that same road with my hubby 
but for a different reason but thankfully everything worked out just fine 
! hope the best for you two 
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Luna, That is VERY COOL. I
Posted on October 23, 2009, 4:02 pmLuna,
That is VERY COOL. I am so happy for you and Silver, and as others have said, I hope this separation serves to make you stronger than ever as a couple, and as a family. I'm sure the kids are feelin the love too.
And yes, honesty, trust, no secrets, straightforward communication. Sounds like something all of us should probably be working on, thanks for the reminder.
Have a wonderful date and enjoy each others' company, and celebrate your love. Enjoy the weekend,
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Are you 2 celebrating with a
Posted on October 23, 2009, 5:37 pmAre you 2 celebrating with a "couple
piercing?" You both have been talking about wanting some new metal, it can be like renewing your vows, exchanging "rings (captive bead rings)." Like you said, gotta have fun along the way. 
Congrats Silver
Luna. You are one cute couple. 
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I am glad you are getting
Posted on October 23, 2009, 6:02 pmI am glad you are getting back to together,you make a good couple
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Luna, im so very very happy
Posted on October 23, 2009, 6:59 pmLuna, im so very very happy for both of you!!!!I wish you and he all the happiness in the world.
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Luna wish you all the luck
Posted on October 23, 2009, 10:15 pmLuna wish you all the luck in the world. All relationships require work if they are to last.
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Quote:... work out issues
Posted on October 23, 2009, 11:45 pmLike Luna said, Magik,
This is really beautiful, reaching across, holding onto each other, instead of focusing on the differences. I could stand to work on this one too, thanks for sharing it in such a simple, yet powerful way. Very elegant and inspiring. Thank you.
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Quote:You were right all
Posted on October 24, 2009, 6:01 amFar be it from me to claim to know what someone's thinking, but this just struck me, and if I'm wrong just ignore me.
I think Mike is saying "Luna, you were right when you said you were going to take this situation and grow from it."
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Hey all, Thanks for all of
Posted on October 24, 2009, 3:25 pmHey all, Thanks for all of your kind words and support. It has really meant a lot!! There are a lot of really good people here on the Tribe!! I am really glad I sorta/kinda met ya'll.
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OMG I can't believe I forgot
Posted on October 24, 2009, 11:49 pmOMG I can't believe I forgot to comment luxx. Go for it dude. But, I bet you wouldn't have to try very hard,lol. Silver likes to poke people. You and your gf get your ass out here and we'll do some shows and pokes. Sounds like a blast!!!
Ooh, and bbq's and fires. WooHoo
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lunachik wrote: Silver likes
Posted on October 25, 2009, 1:03 amOOOOOOhhhh! Piercings. I was confused for a second. Forgive me. I just woke up.
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Luna, Silver, great to hear
Posted on October 25, 2009, 1:25 amLuna, Silver, great to hear that you're going to work on things and try find a way that works for the two of you!! I've got faith in both of you and I'm sure you will work things out.
*big hug*
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Quote:lunachik wrote: Silver
Posted on October 25, 2009, 2:31 amMagik,
You're such a crack up. You should wake up and get coffee or something before you come on here.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA......Ouch.....Da
Posted on October 25, 2009, 10:08 amHAHAHAHAHAHA......Ouch.....Dammit girl. you made me fall off the bed, I was laughing too hard. Now my tummy and my a$$ hurts.LOL And no need for forgiveness, like ya just the way you are, pervy girl. Bring it on sista......hahaha
And thanks so much Petra. You are a sweetie and have been a good friend to us both. Appreciate it!!
“The pain passes, but the beauty remains.”