I have been sounding for over 30 years in one form or another. It started with being curious and sliding long smooth things into my penis. The sensation felt good and the sight of my penis accepting something so taboo sent me over the top. Soon it became an addiction and a challenge at the same time.
My Father had an art supply store so I had an endless supply of art brushes with long skinny handles to slide in and out my hole. I really had no idea what I was doing; I just knew it felt so good. Now though the years I have done my research and have educated myself. With knowledge and experience, I can practice the erotic art of sounding and enlarging my urethra in a healthy way. This can be lots of fun for couples too and in most circles is referred to as Medical Play and a part of BDSM.
I get a couple of letters a week from you guys and a girl or two who want to know more about proper sounding. I can only tell you how I do it and let you go from there. If I tell you something you already know, forgive me. If you have anything to add, please do leave a comment so we can all learn and as always, tell us of your experiences too.
1. Buy a good quality set of Hagar Sounds on eBay for $20-$40. They are polished stainless steel and are as slick as glass. They are easy to clean and tapered too. You will love the leather case they come in. It keeps everything all neat and tidy. Great for travel so you can take along the fun! Watch out for airport security here.
2. Wash everything with antibacterial soap and warm water twice. That means your hands, penis and sounds that you will be using during your session. Keep everything on a fresh clean towel. Never touch your hands to anything that isn't clean. I usually take a shower first so I'm all clean and don't have to worry. (For those that like to get really kinky, if you are using dildos or other anal toys in your play; never mix it up. Just don't touch anything going into your anal area and then touch a sound. This will produce an infection later that you will soon regret.)
3. Use Astroglide lubricant. Smooth some over the sound and a drop or two in your opening of your glans. Go slow and start small and work your way up. Remember training or stretching your urethra to accept these sounds takes time, lots of time. Don't push it too far too fast. Know this; as you go along and your urethra stretches, it will not go back to its original size. Once it is enlarged that’s it for life. If you feel lots of pain, stop. It will hurt some as you stretch but be careful and go slow. You will have to pull it out and re-lube several times. This is normal because the lube is absorbed into the urethra wall. If you see a little blood, don't worry but it’s your body telling you to stop. Let it rest a week or so and then go back. Here’s a little trick. You can use some Orajel to numb your glans and urethra. This makes it alot more pleasurable but be careful. You can over do it and not know it. Just go slow. As time goes by, you will see that the last sound you used goes in quicker and easier than the last session. After your sounding session expect some discomfort when you urinate. It will burn or even sting. That is normal. Your urethra is very tender from being stretched and your ph level in your urethra is down to 0. After a day or so it will get back to normal and the discomfort will go away as it heals.
4. Always remember to drink a full 8 or 10 ounce glass of cranberry juice of at least 27% juice and take two or three cranberry supplements right before your session. The theory behind this is to flush out your system of any unwanted bacteria that may infect your bladder or worse your prostate. You always should urinate right after a session so to flush out any unwanted bacteria lying in the urethra before it has a chance to migrate into the bladder and prostate area. Always follow this rule and you should be alright.
To conclude, be safe; keep everything clean and enjoy what my wife calls Man Dildos. You will love the sensation of something sliding into you and being full at the same time. Trust me. There is nothing like it on Earth! Be cool and make sure to go slow.
Mike
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Thanks Mike...very much
Posted on September 23, 2009, 9:23 amThanks Mike...very much appreciated instructions. Can you cum with a sound in?
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One trick to add to the
Posted on September 23, 2009, 9:29 amOne trick to add to the pleasure. Is shoot lube down inside your urethra. it helps big time and gets the lube deeper. use a syringe. just load it up with Astro glide and squirt in right down the ole urethra. enjoy and GO SLOW.
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No Poked. Never try to
Posted on September 23, 2009, 9:56 amNo Poked. Never try to ejaculate with a solid sound in. If you do, your seman will back up into the bladder and give you a baldder infection that can lead to a kiddney infection too. You can us a Prince Albert Wand which is a sound that is hollow and held in place by a PA piercing stud. You can ejacualte with that in place if you want.
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OK...glad I asked. Hope to
Posted on September 23, 2009, 10:04 amOK...glad I asked. Hope to try the new play soon. My wife is all for it.
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Great info Mike - thanks for
Posted on September 23, 2009, 10:42 pmGreat info Mike - thanks for sharing, much appreciated.
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Just curious, how big have
Posted on September 23, 2009, 11:00 pmJust curious, how big have you stretched your urethra and how has it affected you (urinating, ejaculating, whatever)?
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I am up to 16mm now. As for
Posted on September 23, 2009, 11:04 pmI am up to 16mm now. As for urinating it's pretty normal just with a lot more force and I get done faster. As for ejaculating, I can't shoot it 6' anymore but I manage. Hehehehehehe
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Thanks. Always wanted to
Posted on September 23, 2009, 11:06 pmThanks. Always wanted to stretch, but wasn't aware it was permanent. What's the longest you've ever left a sound in and the deepest you've gone with it?
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My sounds are about 12" long
Posted on September 23, 2009, 11:13 pmMy sounds are about 12" long and I can put them in all the way and then some. As for time, I usually leave it in at least 2 hours or more but that's just me. My pa ring holds it in place so it won't slide out.
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Thanks Mike, I'ts the first
Posted on September 27, 2009, 1:59 pmThanks Mike,
I'ts the first time I've read so much about sounding from an experienced person. I started playing around with my urethra hole five or six years ago with a very smooth artist brush and lube. It took time to handle the wonderful sensation, I would blow off in seconds but now can take 8mm dia.
I should now seriously consider buying proper sounds.
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Yes, if anyone wants to do
Posted on September 27, 2009, 4:05 pmYes, if anyone wants to do this at least do it right. Good luck my friend.
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Mike, excellent advice for
Posted on September 28, 2009, 11:53 amMike, excellent advice for us novices. My Hagar sounds are about nine inches in length, but that does the job for me. I remember the first time my SO and I tried them. The sound on my SO went in so fast, we didn't have time to hold on to it and it slide all the way inside his penis and then some! Luckily, he stood up and the sound just slid back out again. Thanks for the information on the kind of lubricant to use. I had been told to use a non-water based lube, but I'll be using astroglide lube from now on.
Again, thanks for a truly informative blog. Gustavo
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Hey Mike I must be different
Posted on September 29, 2009, 10:36 pmHey Mike I must be different some how. You said once the urethra is stretched it will never go back. Been sounding for years (20+)and my internal part has stretched but the actual opening always goes back. Its a little bigger know but not much.Have stretched up to largest I have (Pratt double ended )

40 Fr Over 1/2 in. What due you make of that, guess I the odd one.
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Elasticity maybe?
Posted on September 29, 2009, 11:56 pmElasticity maybe?
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thanks for the
Posted on October 26, 2009, 4:12 pmthanks for the information... Have tried limited sounding and it feels great to have one in there and then place a vibrator on the end that is sticking out...sort of a tingle all the way down inside of me...
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Wow, sometimes I wish I
Posted on November 29, 2009, 12:19 pmWow, sometimes I wish I could switch my sex for a day or so just to experience how all this stuff is feeling for you guys! *lol*
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So true about the being
Posted on December 11, 2009, 3:27 amSo true about the being clean! I wish I could still shoot the load like I used too! Thanks for info on sounds as I have all the wrong stuff! Re Rosebuds! Have You ever tried the battery electric ones! Way to thick but fun!
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Aww now
Posted on December 11, 2009, 4:05 pmAww now Star.........really?
nycmspboy, I've never had that problem of sounds being too thick. I'm up to 16mm now and working on 17. Hummm, maybe I should stop there. 16mm is big enough I guess.
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Don't stop until ur finger
Posted on December 11, 2009, 4:14 pmDon't stop until ur finger fitts. and Star it's not for boys only.
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Thats right! Females do it
Posted on December 11, 2009, 11:14 pmThats right! Females do it too. There is even video on the net that shows this.
I am finally up to 16mm! Anyone else?
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I've never heard of sounding
Posted on December 12, 2009, 12:47 amI've never heard of sounding before... it's seems interesting... now I have to go research it further, just to know what it's about...

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Just google 'Urethra
Posted on December 12, 2009, 12:51 amJust google 'Urethra Sounding' or 'Urethra Play'
Good luck King!
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Mike this is probably the
Posted on January 27, 2010, 2:12 pmMike this is probably the most informative and entertaining blog I have ever had the pleasure to lay My eyes on. Thank You for being a friend!
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Hey thanks NY! No problemo!
Posted on January 27, 2010, 6:49 pmHey thanks NY! No problemo!
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Well once again Mike, you
Posted on January 28, 2010, 6:08 amWell once again Mike, you have given sound information on the pleasures of other holes!! HAHA!! Your righ it does feel really really great, to slide something down your urethra and just have all that pleasure mount with every little movement as you go furhter down pleasure lane!!!! Keep up the good work Mike with all your suggestions and techniques!!!
Thanks MIKE!!
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Fern! Thanks for stopping
Posted on January 28, 2010, 9:14 amFern! Thanks for stopping by. You are quite welcome!
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I've been intrigued by
Posted on January 31, 2010, 5:30 pmI've been intrigued by sounding for quite a while now, was alone, and decided to look around here.
I searched "sounding" on the board and (of course) Mike popped up.
I just want to say thanks for a straightforward, informative, blog from someone who so obviously loves sounding and is trying to help out others that are interested in learning.
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Try It , You'll Like It !
Posted on January 31, 2010, 5:43 pmTry It , You'll Like It !
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Thanks for all the good
Posted on January 31, 2010, 7:40 pmThanks for all the good advice, Mikey. Funny story bout gettin my PA--my piercer couldn't find a receiving tube large enough cause I had been sounding a while. I told my wife that proved I had a big d!ck...she said it only proved that I was a big hole!!!
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Thanks for the great info
Posted on January 31, 2010, 11:07 pmThanks for the great info Mike,my hagers are on their way !! Can't wait to give it a try..
..hehe Wonder what size to start with...hmmmmmm.... I'm so excited....so Mike (and anyone else thats sounding now) do you sound with your pa ring in ?

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