Hey all... First post in bloody ages! Here I go...
So after much thought, intrigue and general fascination I got pierced in June 2014. I'll be honest, I loved it but the Mrs not so much. A bad experience way before me had put her off for life. Plenty of arguments and malice later I knew to pop it in inter morning and take it out at night... A simple crotch squeeze and a "you've got that sh*t in your dick" was enough to kill the mood for both of us so a little sacrifice went a long way. She even got used to me wandering naked with it in without issue... We'd found a happy medium.
Within six months or so I'd guaged up to a 2g and was happy with everything. Even managed a few days with a 0g. For me it's always been a selfish sexual thing. I know she doesn't like it, to be fair masturbation was a bit sore but the kick of the steel overided that. I love the look, the general feel and looking at other pierced c*ck s.
Then on my stag do I caught the piercing on my swim shorts taking them off... Pulled the ball on my circular barbell into my urethra! Ouch! Swollen, bit of blood and had to take it out.
By which stage my wife was 5 months pregnant and it Dawned on me. Why am I doing this. Complete questioning of faith in my PA. She hated it, my son is arriving soon and I'm not sure I want him to see it or have to explain it and it'd almost torn my manhood in two.
So for the next year my piecing site was agony. No infection but had obviously hit/damaged a nerve.
So fast forward to the last 6months... The curiosity started again and my junk didn't hurt so out came the jewellery.
The 2g stuff slipped in a little tight and was uncomfortable for a little while pinching and aching. Obviously only 9hrs a day in didn't help but eventually it felt fine.
Id bought a 1g ring as the desire to hit 0g started again pretty quickly... A bit of a push and it went back in. Too tight though and I'd alternate both rings after a few hrs of the 2g and switch it to the 1g.
Then a few weeks ago I just grabbed a ring and popped it in... A bit tight... Oh it's the 1g... And now it's comfortable without any warming up. I've tapered the 0g in for a bit and it feels tight but amazing. I save it for days off without her... Cleanung the house etc freeballing!
Anyways so that's where I am now. Happy piercing site and happily rocking my piercing whilst being aware of my wife's feelings.
The thing I've learnt is there's nothing wrong with taking your time. My fistula is definitely less elastic than before but that's a good thing. It's less likely to blow out or migrate. If your piercing is sore definitely don't be afraid to go down a size or retire it for a bit. Once healed it won't close up!
Anyways that's enough from Me...
See you around!
P. S That's the 1g 12mm clip in ball I'm now wearing...