I had a vch piercing yesterday and today I am wondering if it is high enough. I was piercing with a 14g 5/16" curved bar but it seems to hang down low past my clit and past the edge of the hood. I don't feel it at all. I was told I had the perfect anatomy for the piercing and I can tell that the hood has been pierced so it has been done correctly but I am just concerned about how close to the edge it is. Is there a minimum distance from the edge that I could somehow measure to the top ball?
I'm thinking about getting my VCH done but I'm scared. Not of pain or anything but of it going wrong. Can it potentionally ruin sex?! Could my clit become numb from constant friction from the bar? I love the idea it may add to mine and my husbands sex life and I think he would love it (though I'm a bit confused how he would... Erm play? When its in the way! But I'm sure we will figure that out) but its so not worth it if it may negatively effect my clit. Anyone have a poor experience, that they couldn't solve by just taking it out? Thanks!
My piercing is now three months. I'm not sure if i will keep it. I thought it would enhance my sexual experience so far me, i think it's the contrary. I don't feel any incremental sensation during intimate moments, it actually takes me a longer time to reach my orgasm. Thus I'm leaning to think that i lost sensation. The worst is I am constantly wet. I can no longer crossed my legs or sit for a long time at work. I don't get any pleasurable feeling, i'm just wet and need to wash myself multiple times per day.
When I first walked into the Tattoo parlor with my best friend and I, I was really nervous. I didn't know if I wanted to get my VCH done or not. I first went in there just to get checked out and see if I was able to get one or not. And when I found out I was able to I didnt know what to expect, if I was going to go through with it or not. But I figured I was already there so do it now.
On a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being the worst it was maybe a 2) It felt like just a pinch and then it was over, and thats coming from some one who is really bad dealing with any type of pain or needles.
So... I just got my VCH done on Sunday (yesterday) and I got my first good feel of it this evening in the shower..
I cleaned it well and since there was no pain, I figured I would give it a few gentle rubs..
And, my clit is completely obscured by the bottom ball of my jewelry.
I'm not sure if this is how it should be, I am thinking yes. What I never considered was not having direct access to my clit anymore. I rather panicked but now I'm just curious if anyone else finds this to be a problem?
I finally mustered up the courage to get a VCH after weeks of research and a lot of questions to friends of mine who I know have them. I spoke to several piercers and read and reread the female genital piercing section of the Piercing Bible every day in my research to compare notes. I watched Elayne Angel's videos and read testimonials obsessively. My piercing was just done yesterday, so there isn't a whole lot to report just yet, but I can assure anyone who's considering it, that I survived, and you can too!
I'm new to this and am doing research like crazy because I really want this done. I was wondering if anyone could fill in some of my questions.
1: How much better does it enhance sex? I've heard that it helps because the jewelry rubs right on the clitoris. One of my friends in college said that her friend had it done and said that she had an orgasm just from walking. I'm not sure if I believe that. Has anyone experienced this? Or what is the real experience of these piercings enhancing sex?
I recently had my VCH pierced (a week ago).
I had the run of the mill experience that most ladies had on here - small pinch that went away VERY quick. Before I could finish saying "oh my god" it was done and there was no pain. Like most, it was a startling pain, that was gone and forgotten about before I even put my pants on.
However, and this is the reason for posting, I'm having some minor issues and I want your opinion on it! While being examined, the piercer stated that he could see a lot of blood vessels around my hood, and said that I might have some bleeding.
So I did do some research and found a female piercer that is reputable around my way. She was super cool, told me stories of other vch piercings she did and even did the qtip test on me but when she pierced me she gave me a surface piercing. its completely above the hood, my hood is TINY as you can see and she even said its just big enough blah blah ...when she showed me i loved it as at the shop i didn't even realize it was off...even now i do not mind at all where it is!
I went to Splash of Color in East Lansing, MI, which is a pretty reputable establishment and it was where I got my nose pierced a couple years ago. I did the q-tip test and wasn't sure if I had enough room but I made an appointment anyway.
My piercer was Renee and she was perfect. She answered all my questions, always made sure I was comfortable, and kept the conversation light. She put me at ease and after taking measurements and showing me the marks, it was done!
Even though I've had my nose and eyebrow pierced I was terrified but it was over so quickly!