Ha! Here I said I'd never get a VCH and about a week after my nips I decided I really wanted it done. But we were heading on holidays for 9 weeks...
Fast forwards 2 weeks into the holiday and hubs got hit by a car in LA. So after weeks in Cedars Sinai and then a mede-vac back to Australia, hubs was admitted to a hospital in Queensland. We sat down and talked. Since there'd be no *fun* for several months, it made sense to get the VCH done straight away so that by the time he could, I'd be fully healed.
I've finally got my vch done. I was so freaken scared but so glad I did it. From what I've read I think I bled a lot compared to others. Huge surprise when I woke up to wet panties and not in the good way. It has been about 3 weeks since I've gotten it done. The piercer said to let it heal for about 6 weeks aka no sex. 6 weeks?!?! That's insane. I waited a week. That should count for something. Anyways I hope this helps someone out there who's deciding if they should get it done or not. GET IT. hahaha it's awesome. No regrets.
My wife has always been very reserved and unadventurous when it comes to sex. So when I asked her over a year ago to get her hood pierced I never thought it would happen. In her love for me she finally did it. Six months later I still can't believe she did it. She doesn't even have her ears pierced. Lol. It looks so sexy! But I was hoping this would help her let go and enjoy sex more. Sadly to say that I don't think it has really made much of a difference. She doesn't seem to get any extra pleasure from it. But I love the thought of our little secret and how amazing it looks.
So I finally got my VCH done today! I found an amazing shop to go to and I will be returning for any piercing I decide to get in the future. I am absolutely in love with my new piercing and can not wait to test drive it! It has already been useful for me even though it is not even a day old. The only downside is that it has been bleeding a tad bit which is expected but out of all my piercings this is the only one to bleed which is understandable due to the area. I can say I was nervous about going to get it but in the end as soon as I got to the shop my nervousness faded and I was at ease.
I had a vch piercing yesterday and today I am wondering if it is high enough. I was piercing with a 14g 5/16" curved bar but it seems to hang down low past my clit and past the edge of the hood. I don't feel it at all. I was told I had the perfect anatomy for the piercing and I can tell that the hood has been pierced so it has been done correctly but I am just concerned about how close to the edge it is. Is there a minimum distance from the edge that I could somehow measure to the top ball?
I'm thinking about getting my VCH done but I'm scared. Not of pain or anything but of it going wrong. Can it potentionally ruin sex?! Could my clit become numb from constant friction from the bar? I love the idea it may add to mine and my husbands sex life and I think he would love it (though I'm a bit confused how he would... Erm play? When its in the way! But I'm sure we will figure that out) but its so not worth it if it may negatively effect my clit. Anyone have a poor experience, that they couldn't solve by just taking it out? Thanks!
My piercing is now three months. I'm not sure if i will keep it. I thought it would enhance my sexual experience so far me, i think it's the contrary. I don't feel any incremental sensation during intimate moments, it actually takes me a longer time to reach my orgasm. Thus I'm leaning to think that i lost sensation. The worst is I am constantly wet. I can no longer crossed my legs or sit for a long time at work. I don't get any pleasurable feeling, i'm just wet and need to wash myself multiple times per day.
When I first walked into the Tattoo parlor with my best friend and I, I was really nervous. I didn't know if I wanted to get my VCH done or not. I first went in there just to get checked out and see if I was able to get one or not. And when I found out I was able to I didnt know what to expect, if I was going to go through with it or not. But I figured I was already there so do it now.
On a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being the worst it was maybe a 2) It felt like just a pinch and then it was over, and thats coming from some one who is really bad dealing with any type of pain or needles.
So... I just got my VCH done on Sunday (yesterday) and I got my first good feel of it this evening in the shower..
I cleaned it well and since there was no pain, I figured I would give it a few gentle rubs..
And, my clit is completely obscured by the bottom ball of my jewelry.
I'm not sure if this is how it should be, I am thinking yes. What I never considered was not having direct access to my clit anymore. I rather panicked but now I'm just curious if anyone else finds this to be a problem?