Following on from my previous post this 5mm bar is now loose and I have measured and my piercing has now gone to 7mm. Any ideas on how I can stop it stretching further apart taking it out?
I had been thinking about a piercing for a while and reading through other experiences on Trabelectic finally convinced me to get one. Would love a PA but don't want to deal with the peeing issues, so I settled on a frenum.
Drove past the shop a few times but finally built up the nerve to go in. The piercer was very friendly and explained everything ahead of time. He did not use a clamp, just a needle and cork.
Deep breath in, breathe out, and done! Felt like an intense pinch but for no more than a second and no pain afterward. Wrapped it up in a glove and was on my way.
I started with a 1.6mm straight bioflex bar on 14th Feb this year. I haven't tried to stretch it at all but has stretched on its own accord. I measure what jewellery I needed and had to order 5mm diameter jewellery. I spoke to my piercer and he said in 27 years of piercing he has never know a frenum piercing to stretch so much naturally.
Just sharing as I wonder if anybody has had similar experiences.
Used this site as a research resource for a long while before getting my Frenum. Thanks to everyone posting here. As with many of the experiences posted before me, I hope my experiences help out anyone else considering a frenum/genital piercing. I'm writing neither as pro or against it; just my personal experience having done it. I liked the idea of having something that people wouldn't expect me to have, and something I could share only to people I'm intimate with. The idea of sexual benefits for my partner are a plus but weren't the initial reason for the piercing.
So, I've lived a pretty awesome life -- great wife, 2 kids, steady work, churchgoing, never had been stabbed in the penis accidentally or purposefully... I haven't really had the urge to get a tattoo nor get a visible piercing. Just not very practical.
To spice things up a bit and being done procreating, we started talking about *me* getting a vasectomy (okay fine.) And, then if THAT's on the table, I start thinking about other ideas to spice up the sex life. I became curious about piercings -- mainly nipple and male/female genital due to the inconspicuousness.
Hi Guys. I took my 3month old Frenulum out the other day because it was uncomfortable for my wife. After a bit of fun I couldn't get it back in. That surprised me, as I thought I would be able to take it out by now and get it back in. Apparently not.
I went back to the piercing shop the next day and the guy had to run a 12g taper through, followed by a 10, the the 8g with the jewellery piece. Holy moly it hurt like hell. 10/10. My PA was nothing compared and the initial Frenulum piercing was easy too.
Wow, I will be waiting longer now before it comes out again.
I'm afraid I had to give up on my Frenum Piercing last night. His mother and I proved to be unfit parents. From the day he came home from the piercer we couldn't resist the urge to enter him into the sex slave trade. He was never given the chance to heal and the abuse never let up.
It sure was nice to wake up with a hard-on that didn't hurt this morning. It looks like I'm going to have a cool fistula scare. It feels like it still has a bar in it, but it's much more comfortable already. I don't regret getting it done, but I'm glad I took it out.
I had it for 2 months.
So...I've been reading all the info on here for maybe a couple years now. I was mobilized to Egypt in early 2013 and decided to get a PA when I returned based on the stories and info I found here. Very informative and helpful community. I'd say it's a mid-life crisis thing, but at 39, I think I'm beyond mid-life.
I got my PA done at Church of Steel in San Diego after I returned from my mobilization in November of 2014. I was going to hold out until I got back to Portland, OR area, but just couldn't wait.