After years of reading users' posts on here about how amazing frenums are, but chickening out, I FINALLY took the plunge.
Found a great piercer here in town, asked a bunch of questions although a lot of my questions and fears were answered here in these forums. In absolutely no time at all, he had me all marked up, and without a clamp and with one deep inhale and exhale, it was all done! Only a mild pinch!! Easy peasy!
The original piercing is a 14g barbell. I really want to work up to a 10g or 8g, but will need to see if the skin can allow it.
so me and the wife were laying in bed the other day and i said im bored lets go bowling or something. she replied "how about we go get our genitals pierced?" lol good girl!!! shes been thinking about a vch and i didnt know what i wanted. after some reserch on getting a PA, I decided to go with the Frenum for my first one.
we were both nervous as hell! but we did some reserch and found a reputable shop in providence RI. (east coast tatoo and piercing)
we met jay, an experienced piercer. he quickly put us at ease and we picked our jewels out.
I had researched the piercing for nearly a year, after initially seeing one in the book at the tattoo/piercing studio. I didn't want a PA or any of the others,the frenum seemed the best for me.Talking to the piercer for several months with any of my questions and concerns, she made the decision to do it easier.
I nearly chickened out the night I went, the piercer explained everything she was doing throughout the procedure and what to expect.
The whole experience was better than I expected, the pain was probably a 3 level at most,and I didn't embarrass myself in various ways.
Well I had my frenum done yesterday afternoon. For some reason I was a bit nervous, getting another hole in my cocck seemed a strange thing to do. I only had my nipples done 3 weeks ago and they hurt like hell when the needle went in and I thought that this was going to be another painful experience.
I have had all my piercings done at the Piercing Urge in Prahran in Melbourne but have had 3 different people pierce me. Leanne did my PA and ladder but she has since going overseas indefinitely.
Following on from my previous post this 5mm bar is now loose and I have measured and my piercing has now gone to 7mm. Any ideas on how I can stop it stretching further apart taking it out?
I had been thinking about a piercing for a while and reading through other experiences on Trabelectic finally convinced me to get one. Would love a PA but don't want to deal with the peeing issues, so I settled on a frenum.
Drove past the shop a few times but finally built up the nerve to go in. The piercer was very friendly and explained everything ahead of time. He did not use a clamp, just a needle and cork.
Deep breath in, breathe out, and done! Felt like an intense pinch but for no more than a second and no pain afterward. Wrapped it up in a glove and was on my way.
I started with a 1.6mm straight bioflex bar on 14th Feb this year. I haven't tried to stretch it at all but has stretched on its own accord. I measure what jewellery I needed and had to order 5mm diameter jewellery. I spoke to my piercer and he said in 27 years of piercing he has never know a frenum piercing to stretch so much naturally.
Just sharing as I wonder if anybody has had similar experiences.
Used this site as a research resource for a long while before getting my Frenum. Thanks to everyone posting here. As with many of the experiences posted before me, I hope my experiences help out anyone else considering a frenum/genital piercing. I'm writing neither as pro or against it; just my personal experience having done it. I liked the idea of having something that people wouldn't expect me to have, and something I could share only to people I'm intimate with. The idea of sexual benefits for my partner are a plus but weren't the initial reason for the piercing.